Okay, so a few months ago a few girls at the school approached me and asked me to lead their girls group...
Hummm, me in charge of a mentor group to help encourage young black women in America - I'm all for it!
I was honestly flattered and honored that they chose me. There are a few other female staff members they could have went with, but they asked me. Awesome right? Anyhoo, we've been going strong for about 6 months now and we recently had our first "dress up" day. The boys group dressed up a couple months ago, and stunned the school with their bow ties, dress shirts, and shoes. They looked dashing! Naturally this inspired the girls to want to have their own day - as it should!
Fast forward - 3 months later
I find myself in Queens Center Mall attempting to shop for outfits for our first annual "Dress Up Day". After spending a solid 4 hours and 45 minutes in the mall the ladies finally all found something to wear. I planned on purchasing something as well, but by the time we were done shopping for them I was tired. Which is interesting because I love shopping, but all the walking and indecisiveness made me want to take a nap lol.
The next day they arrived at school beaming with pride because they looked great, and didn't have to be in uniform. Throughout the day people provided them with compliments, head nods, and smiles. Most of them were so excited about their outfits that they stated they were going to wear similar clothing all the time. You don't know how happy that made me. I love to see young women comfortable in their skin, with the proper understanding that you don't have to be half naked to be sexy or deemed worthy of a compliment.
We took to the hallway at lunch for our photo shoot - I finally put that Canon Camera to use - they posed, laughed, strutted, and beamed at the camera. Check them out!
How cute are they?
These are young women 16-17 who put together school appropriate outfits with little interference from me...after my speech about the inappropriateness of crop tops in an academic setting. They still pulled it together regardless and looked absolutely fabulous! #Proudmama
Outfit Details
I don't remember exactly which pieces came from which stores because we walked into almost every establishment in the mall, but I remember a little something something.
Before we start I just have to say how proud I am of my babies! They were well behaved and interested in campus life! Mind you some of them complained about attending in the first place - of course, but at the end of the trip they were all smiles. Picture this: A bus full of 40 scholars ready to embark on their first or second college trip. Enduring the sounds of constant chatter, cackling, snoring, and possible bits of teenage drama. Now, your average person would be full of complaints and deep sighs, but I LOVED IT - as strange as that might sound. Why? You're probably asking - 1. Road trips are awesome 2. Who wouldn't be excited about a college trip - a trip that gives you a reason to not be stuck in a building with abnormally hyper children ALL DAY...Hummm??
Right. Why are College trips important? College Trips are a fundamental part of high school life. It gives scholars an opportunity to experience the world of academia outside of the walls of their high school. Now in some case scenarios certain scholars are adamant about not attending a college or University. Yet, they find themselves on these "mandatory trips" and are intrigued by the idea of college life. Surprisingly enough, they are usually the scholars who ask the most questions. Ironic ... isn't it? With that said, my babies recently attended a college trip to Albany University SUNY Though some of the scholars complained about visiting a SUNY University they still managed to enjoy themselves. We arrived at the School around 9am, split into two groups, and headed our separate ways. Now of course the boys spent a bit of time looking for the "Jawns" but such is life lol..hormones man. Long story short - they all loved it. A few of them plan on applying there in September - mission accomplished! As we strolled around campus I found the time to snap a couple flicks. Check them out below!
Announced that it was time to take a picture, took my phone out of my pocket and saw this. Why do most guys pose like that? lol - hearing "I'm a grown man" all day and then looking at pictures like this make me laugh. I wish you could have witnessed the amount of time it took for them to decide which pose they wanted to do. Yet, somehow they're all leaning to right. Yes... super creative guys lol #foolishness
Taken after eating the college out of house and home. Once they found out it was "buffet style" they lost their minds. The amount of plates devoured per student was ridiculous. I was all too convinced the bathroom on the bus wouldn't make back to Brooklyn in one piece.
Side note: Yes, I rocked my Morgan Sweater at their campus. Shameful? Absolutely not - I represent at ALL TIMES. Anyhow, look how happy they are. Perhaps it was the food...
The GQ TEAM. I need ya'll to know I took these pics with my Samsung 6 Edge Plus. The camera though... HELLO! People - hop aboard the Samsung train, because these cameras are everything! All in all, it was great trip, they enjoyed themselves and I enjoyed the food (don't judge me). September should be a very productive month for all of our future seniors. A year full of memories and accomplishments. Let's go HUM III!
I discovered She Inside a couple months ago but never got around to buying anything. Today they're having a 40% off storewide. A 50% Ugly sweater sale & Pre - orders, and a 50% off buy one get one free special. The best thing about smaller international boutiques are the variety of options and styles. There is a 90% chance that you will never see someone wearing a garment you own...yay!
The remaining stores have great sales as well - be sure to check them out.
Before we get into anything i just want to wish you guys a HAPPY THANKSGIVING!!
I know I've been MIA, but that's due to the fact that ya girl is finally moving up in the world, look at God! After graduation, I had a series of temp positions - that for some reason never led to permanent placement. Why? I have no idea, I happen to think I'm pretty amazing. Anyhow, I moved from job to job, saved money, and continued to put my resume out there and hope for the best. Fast forward - a friend of mine informed me that his job (a charter school) was hiring. Of course, I moved quickly, filled out the application, yada yada yada. After interviewing with the school, I was very confident that I got the job - and by the grace of GOD I finally got the phone call that I had been waiting for, for at least a year and a half. "We would like to offer you the position" Guys, I almost fell out, I was so excited.
After my first week at the school, I realized that I would honestly never really have the chance to be bored. Which is ... shocking to say the least. There is always something to be done. Whether its, escorting kids to the nurse, monitoring hallways, talking to scholars who may be struggling in certain classes, the time spent at the job is always worth while. I feel as though this is a great opportunity because one of my goals in life is to become a teacher. BOOM! This is totally a stepping stone. Moving from one job to the next is never fun, what's even worse is when you have a job that you honestly care nothing about. You know how it is, you work in an office pushing paper all day and slowly start to realize that that specific job isn't something you want to do for the rest of your life. Waking up in the morning to go to a job you hate sucks, literally. I'm sure we've all been through this at one point in our fantastical lives. ;)
LIFE AT THE JOB:
Well, so far so good! I've been there for about a month and It's been pretty great. I'm in the process of getting to know the kids and enforce my "authority." The only drawback is waking up at 5:30 AM. Lord... it's a struggle. In the short time that I've been there I've managed to build and maintain relationships with numerous students. Honestly, that is the best part of my job - the student interaction. Though there are times when they may or may not test my patience... I still truly enjoy my job. Besides the student interaction, building and maintaining relationships with my co-workers have been eventful as well. Hearing stories about things that took place before my arrival, or student shenanigans that occured always make for interesting conversation. Walking through the hallways cause me to reminice about my old highschool days. This position is literally like being on the other side. I now know about everything that happens within the walls of the scghool. Remember when you were in highschool and you heard that so and so were beefing about something, but you could never get all the details? Every time you walked into the office the people in there would immediatly stop talking about it and you would think to yourself "what in the hell is going on here?!" Well ladies and gentleman, ask me because I know. Ha! I know that sounds a little lame but i don't care, lol.
Thanks for checking in! I'll definitely post up dates about the job every now and then. Once again,
First and foremost, if you have no idea who I'm talking about you need to crawl out from under that rock and get your life. I don't know where he came from, but it's about damn time. As we all know the music industry is notorious for signing random ass artists that don't live up to the hype, which is why it always amazes me that independent artists spring up out of no where and single handily shut shit down. With that said, TRAPSOULIS BOMB. I am loving this album! Co-signed by Drizzy himself - he definitely lived up to the hype. I guarantee you this kid is going to be the next big thing. The 22 year old, Kentucky native released his debut album, TRAPSOUL,on Apple Music and the album is already No. 2 on the iTunes R&B Albums Chart & No. 6 on the iTunes All Genres Chart. Those titles are well deserved...TRUST. The album is great from the intro to the very last song. Bryson shares his story with us through his music, he talks about love, lust, hurt, relationships, family, his personal journey as well as his mistakes. It's raw and REAL, which we all know is a rare commodity these days. From the production to his smooth vocals and DOPE lyrics ugh! It's crazy! I can't even begin to explain to you how smooth his transitions are. We get a taste of that in the opening song - Differences, everything transitions into each other amazingly. Working with legendary producer Timbaland whom also co-signed Tiller, Milli Beats and others. The beats on this are MAD. Mind you, I don't listen to trap music - that music has too much going on for me, but Bryson's version of R&B trap is bomb. I LOVE IT. Understand me...He's amazing. I honestly can't choose a favorite song, the album in its entirety is BONKERS. TRAPSOUL is wavy, don't sleep on this kid. A basic synopsis of his album won't do it any justice so I'll share my thoughts on every single song on the album, lyrics and all. Ready? Here we go!
1. (Intro) Difference
Honestly, they're isn't much to say about the intro besides the fact that his voice is tantalizing. What I can say, is that the intro glides perfectly into the second song. I didn't even realize the song changed until I looked at my phone. I was wondering why the hell the intro was so damn long. lol The transitions on his album...GRADE A.
2. Let Em' Know
I love this damn song, there are way too many lyrics to choose from, but I'll keep it as short as I can.
Right now, you are now tuned in, Pen Griffey I'm still going in. "Who is he?" Mothaf***a' I'm him.
Ha! Bryson starts off by introducing himself, compares himself to Pen Griffey indicating that he has more content on the way. Well, at least that's how I interpreted it. Also, people have been asking about him and his spontaneous come up in the game.
I know we ain't had this conversation in a minute but you know what they say if it ain't broke then don't fix it, it's clearly not broken it's just so unfinished. I feel like my new bitch was just your apprentice so we just got into it, here comes the ending. You said this shit would happen girl, that was your prediction. Said I'll never find no one like you and I should have listened.
Now how many of us have said the last line to an ex. "You'll never find someone like me" etc. Were you right or naw? Are they struggling? lmao that's petty... but oh well!
I know it looks simple on paper, but you have to hear how he made it all flow. I'm struggling to express how bomb this guy is. Just listen to the album! PLEASE.
3. Exchange
This is my JAM. When I play this on my way to Pathmark and other cars pull up next to me they're like ...
I got the hand gestures and facial expressions on point.
But it's all good, because this song is well worth the crazy looks.
Give it a listen and you'll definitely agree.
Lord please save her for me, do this one favor for me. I had to change my play of ways got way too complicated for me. I hope she's waiting for me. Everywhere she go, they playing' my song, that's why I say the things that I say that way I know you can't ignore me.
So gimme all of you in exchange for me
Just give me all of you in exchange for me, for me.
For those of you who know me, you know it doesn't take much for me to get emotional. I am a sap for romantic comedies, romantic dramas etc. As for music, when men produce ballads or rap/ballads about their exes or ladies...I just can't. I LOVE IT. The great thing about this song besides the fact that he's expressing his love for his ex lady is he switches from singing to rapping... effortlessly. I kid you not, the transition was so chill. I guarantee you this will be one of your favorite songs on the album.
4. For However Long
This wonderful song features a sample of Jodeci's "Alone". Needless to say, this is a great song. From the production to the lyrics, the track is seamless. It's definitely a banger.
Stepping out, know I want you on the side of me. Mama, you could work, full-time with me, roll through in the Beamer, get inside 'Til the wheels fall off, that's how long you can ride with me.
Are you a rider? Bryson expresses his thoughts on a ride or die. I mean c'mon, who doesn't want that?
5. Don't
For those of you who knew about Bryson before reading this article, you know that this was his breakout song. I love, love, love it! The beats throughout the entire album are amazing, but this song in particular... classic trap, With a TWIST. This is one you need to hear so give it a listen! Like... NOW.
Lately you say he been killen the vibe, gotta be sick of this guy. Pull up, skurt, get in the ride. Left hand is steering, the other is gripping your thigh. Light up a spliff and get high, shawty you deserve what you been missing' looking at you I'm thinking he must be trippin' play this song for him tell him, just listen.
In other words, if you want to keep her you better treat her right. Trust and believe someone else is waiting to swoop in and snatch her ass up. Make smart decisions fellas!!
Bryson blessed us with a video for Don't! Check it out below.
6. Open Interlude
This song
transitions into the second half of the song where the beat and melody
change entirely. It's smooth.
Alright,
so in the first part of the song he illustrates to us that he's with
the girl he's talking to and they're chilling and rolling up.
Nows the time to just clear the air, put this shit back in
motion. Now you finally open, I'm just tryna be only...You ain't look me
in the eye once.
This is
your average behavior at the beginning stages of any relationship. AKA It's
relatable.
Don't wanna act all nonchalant, that would mean that everything
we talked about was all for nothin' ohh, girl I've been so afraid. Baby, I've
been suffering', does that mean nothin'? That's gotta mean
something.
In the
second part of the song it's evident they've been dating for a while, but now
the aura is starting to shift. The honeymoon phase
is officially over. I love that he talks about the fact that he's
affected by her nonchalant behavior. Honestly, Drake is the only
rapper who talks about topics such as this. It's great to hear about it
from someone in our generation though. Go head Bryson!
7. Ten Nine Fourteen
When artists keep it real their music is almost ALWAYS relatable. He doesn't just talk about females and money, but he lets you into his world by discussing his short comings and struggles. How can you not respect that? I'll say it again, this kid is DOPE.
You know me, I gotta keep it real on this shit. My shawty mama put me out the crib, nigga I was paying' bills, almost got a third job, she don't know the way it feels. But look, look at how a nigga living. My dream just got a lot more vivid. See, when you fall flat on your face, there's no where to go but up.
8. The Sequence
Another car classic.. this song is everything.
I've been dreaming about the most recent I don't lie, no I don't pretend and your guard up, thats defense. Let it down, girl I swear I won't let you down. I ain't 2Pac, I don't get around. Was cool at the first, but I get it now, I get now. You know all of my secrets and you know all my weaknesses.
Yet another song expressing his love for his ex. He explains that he knows he messed up and that he definitely has to get his shit together. The beat though... Please just buy the album LORD!
9. Rambo
Right! This song is more of a banga than anything else. The beat is HARD. I feel like I'm bout it when I listen to this one lol.
Rambo, they begging for mercy, like the lambo'. No they told me kill them all, goddamn though I know they want to see me fall, look where I am though. On two feet, that's where I stand though.
#Boom
10. 502 Come Up
One word, amazing.
I know I say that a lot so this should be a clear indication that this album is everything. From the beat to the lyrics...everything = perfection.
Woke up in the hills this morning, asking myself, how did I get here this morning? Vante Parker in that teal and orange and Russell in that gold and purple. Youngest from the Ville, imported, I used it sit up in my room and ponder finish school and get a Doctors. I'm twenty-two, I gotta get it now Man who knew he'd have it figured out?
11. Sorry Not Sorry
I need you guys to know that he used the Street Fighter sample. CLASSIC.
Anyhow, people and their flip flop tendencies. As soon as you get a little pocket change people want the world.
I used to think about how you would act when a nigga got money. Now you done switched up on me. Now you wanna say "what's up?" to me. Okay so now you wanna make love to me.
12. Been That Way
This was the second song I heard from Bryson and instantly fell in love with him and the song. It's a BIG TUNE!
I wanna know how we became so distant girl, the way we fell in love it was almost instant. I'm tryna find a way around it, girl tell me how you feel about it. You still love me, that's the way it sounding, Thank God I would have never found this, I doubt it I'm there for you if you allow it.
13. Overtime
So your new guy thinks he can keep you by buying fancy shit huh... sike. You mine girl come here! *picks up belongings and dips with Tilla* lmao
The song starts in the middle of a conversation. I kid you not, I thought Rihanna was speaking. I re-played the song at least 3 times and declared to my boyfriend that Rihanna was on the track... it wasn't her...obviously BUT they sound exactly the same. Give it a listen.
Wonder where you at, I just might hold you for ransom. Aww man, he just bough a Balmain he thought that would keep her 'round but he thought wrong, nothing at all thats what she got on. And she will get up and leave him for me, I know I mean how could he not know.
^^ Damn.
14. Right My Wrongs
I love that he jumped back into his R&B roots for the last song on the album. Throughout the album he jumps between singing and rapping, but by placing a strictly harmonious R&B track at the end he managed to bring the album full circle. This song is yet another ballad to an ex or current girlfriend - so you know I love it. Most importantly the harmonies in this song make my day Every. Single.Time.
I say you don't need nobody else, feels like you don't got me so you feel like you've been by yourself. I've been feeling kinda down myself. I've been going through it as well. Girl, I guess time will tell, thats the problem, I ain't got any left. There's somethings I can't help, but you would make the time for me.
I adore this song in particular because it feels like he's sharing his thoughts with US (the listeners) but perhaps isn't brave enough to tell his lady. Sort of like a redemption song. He never meant to hurt her etc. Well, whoever she is I hope she loves this song as much as I do. If I were her I would definitely call that ass after hearing this heart wrencher...I'm just saying.
**************************************************************************************************** I've broken down every song on this spectacular album. If you took the time to read the article in its entirety then you NEED to either stream the album or sample it via iTunes. It's $8.00...c'mon. START DOWNLOADING. Happy Listening!
Love, - Sassy ' N' New York Images: (giphy,karencivil,dailychiefers,tumblr)
Harley Viera-Newton vs. Rihanna in Adam Selman's Fall 2015 Bow knit cardigan and dress
As a woman, your worst nightmare is seeing another female wearing your entire outfit...maybe minus the purse and accessories, but still! Harley Viera-Newton was spotted at 3.1 Phillip Lim's Spring 2016 show in the same $425 Adam Selman Bow Knit Cardigan and $485 Dress Rihanna sported in March:
Harley wore the set with black suede pointed-toe pumps and a black leather clutch. Ri-Ri wore matching teal bow pumps and black socks, opting for the original runway style. The green and black wool cardigan features bow detailing and a button front.
The matching collared dress features long sleeves, as well as the same bow accents, and a pullover silhouette.
Runway look:
A closer look:
Personally, I think both women are beautiful but I don't like the outfit. There's something about those bows that rub me the wrong way... Anyhow! What do you guys think? Take the poll below! Happy Voting! -Sassy ' N ' New York Images: (getty,fashionsizzle,tomandlorenzo,polyvore,openingceremony)
Who Wore It Better? Harley Viera-Newton Vs. Rihanna! Images: (getty,fashionsizzle,tomandlorenzo,polyvore,openingceremony)
- Sassy ' N' New York
